What Women Worry About on Date

Going on a date can be a stressful experience, especially if it’s been a while since your last one or you’re very keen to impress this particular guy. In fact, there’s probably no need to be concerned. The fact that he either asked you on a date or accepted your invitation means that he’s interested in you, and that he probably isn’t looking for an excuse not to see you again. To the contrary; he’s probably hopeful and worried too. Here are some of the worries reported by women who date, and the reasons why you shouldn’t be concerned by them.

What You’re Wearing

Of course, your choice of outfit is important in some ways. You want to wear something appropriate for the time and location of your rendezvous, and should feel attractive and confident. What is not important, however, are the small things. Broadly speaking, men aren’t as observant as women. Whilst he can tell the difference between a dress and jeans, he doesn’t know what brand your dress is. He will probably notice that you’re wearing a bracelet, but the shape and material won’t concern him. He’s more interested in what’s underneath.

Whether Your Teeth Are White Enough

Everybody loves a great smile, and you might be wondering whether or not yours is good enough. But if you’re on a date, it means that he’s attracted to you physically. You should be taking this opportunity to appear as attractive as possible – and that means you have to smile! Smiling conveys a range of positive emotions, and is crucial to the flirting process. If it’s the shape of your smile that worries you, look into braces for adults. These can now be completely invisible and could provide you with a much-needed confidence boost.

Whether ‘This is Going Somewhere’

The purpose of a date is to get to know someone and have fun. Live in the moment – enjoy the food and drink, laugh at his jokes, and tell a few of your own. You don’t need to ask about his life goals until the two of you have established something more solid, so try not to be concerned with such things. If you’re thinking about children, you’re not thinking about how tasty your food is, or how nice his eyes look in the candlelight.

Whether You Should Pay

On a first date, it’s likely that he’ll offer to pay for you. In fact, he’ll probably want to – this is one tradition which has survived women’s struggle for equality. Don’t be embarrassed by this. Always offer to pay for yourself, as failing to do so may make you appear selfish, but don’t expect to have to follow through with it. If it makes you feel better, you can always tell him that you’ll get the next one. Otherwise, a simple thank you will suffice.

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Rosie Waters is a journalist and blogger from Brighton. She loves her work, and is currently writing a book which will explore the intricacies of the dating world.

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