How to Flirt with Someone You Like

Sep 23 2015 Tags: Lifestyle, Relationship

How to Flirt with Someone You Like

Simply striking up a conversation with someone you’re interested in is difficult for most people, but add flirting into the mix and most don’t have any idea where to begin. The goal is to come across as attractive and fun while letting the object of your affection know that you’re interested…without scaring them off! Flirting doesn’t have to be difficult though. Here are five tips on how to flirt with someone you like.

Make them laugh. Humor is one of the most popular flirting techniques and for good reason-it works! If you can make someone laugh, they will instantly notice you and think of you as someone who is a blast to be around. If you share a sense of humor with someone, it’s highly likely that you’ll connect on other levels as well. In fact, many men think that if a woman is witty, that she is much more attractive than someone who might look better physically. So get your jokes out!

Use your body language. Flirting isn’t always all about talking. Sometimes, it’s not about what you say, but what your body language is telling them. Don’t cross your arms in front of your chest or look down at the ground. This tells the world (and your crush!) that you are closed off, and don’t want anyone to talk to you. You don’t have to put a crazy grin on your face at all times, but maintain an aura of friendliness and approachability. Look over at the person you are flirting with often and when you catch their eye, smile and look away. Let them know in no uncertain terms that you notice them, and that you really like what you see!

Ask for an introduction. Do you and your crush have mutual friends? If so, take advantage of it! Most people just love to play matchmaker and won’t hesitate to introduce a potential love connection. If you don’t have friends in common, maximize whatever you do have in common. Did you grow up in the same town or do you work in the same industry? Or do you both just happen to be drinking Guinness at the bar? Whatever it is, grab on to it and use it as your starting off point. You can always take the conversation in new directions, but this is a great way to get your flirting off to a winning start!

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No Strings Dating is a worldwide casual online dating site. For more dating advice and tips, visit their No Strings Dating blog.


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